Q

Anonymous asked:

Having read your recent answer to the girl who thought a guy was playing it cool, I thought I'd chip in from the other side of the fence. I've met a girl recently who is unfuckingbelievably amazing - razor sharp intellect, funny, heart stoppingly gorgeous - but the problem is that she's so great I'm paralysed by the fear of cocking things up. We've been for drinks and I'm keen to move things on but I'm stuck playing it safe. Thoughts?

A

Maybe she feels the same about you? Do you not think you’re “good enough” for her? The most sure way of fucking this up is by doing absolutely nothing: I suggest you take her out again before someone else snaps her up!

thequeerclone:

the fact that there have no leaked nudes in my dashboard proves that i’m following the right people

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Q

Anonymous asked:

Is "playing it cool" still a thing? I've been talking to a guy for a couple of weeks & we've now been on a date and it went amazingly well, yet he's become very hit & miss in communication. My friends say he's "playing it cool" but aren't we past that in our mid 20's? Do we not just say, yeah I had a great time but you're not for me? Rather than avoiding us and making self confidence hit rock bottom? Am I doing the dating thing totally wrong?

A

We ARE beyond “playing it cool”. If he’s not beyond it too, you don’t wanna be fucking with him. Either way, you deserve someone who is totally enthusiastic about your conversations and interactions. Either confront him about it (by signalling that his behaviour is a little odd eg “you’re pretty quiet, is everything ok?” Don’t self-deprecate and make excuses with “sorry to harass you but pls talk to me more”) or go silent and see how he responds-if he wants to talk to you enough he’ll make an effort to do so.

Q

Anonymous asked:

somebody threw me under the bus today at work. very general i know, but what's the best way of dealing with this?

A

Wait. Quietly and patiently wait. And then have your vengeance in a classy, anonymous, calm manner. The chance will arise for you to get back on top where you belong. Laying under a bus doesn’t look good on you.

smartgirlsattheparty:

This one never gets old.
smartgirlsattheparty:

This one never gets old.
molten-heart:

anastasiajeanettemarie:

sizvideos:

If Girls Hit On Guys Like Guys Hit On Girls - Video

LOOK AT THIS. LOOK AT THIS, MEN WHO DO THIS, AND FEEL FOOLISH

Do you see how ridiculous this looks? How obscene?
molten-heart:

anastasiajeanettemarie:

sizvideos:

If Girls Hit On Guys Like Guys Hit On Girls - Video

LOOK AT THIS. LOOK AT THIS, MEN WHO DO THIS, AND FEEL FOOLISH

Do you see how ridiculous this looks? How obscene?
molten-heart:

anastasiajeanettemarie:

sizvideos:

If Girls Hit On Guys Like Guys Hit On Girls - Video

LOOK AT THIS. LOOK AT THIS, MEN WHO DO THIS, AND FEEL FOOLISH

Do you see how ridiculous this looks? How obscene?
molten-heart:

anastasiajeanettemarie:

sizvideos:

If Girls Hit On Guys Like Guys Hit On Girls - Video

LOOK AT THIS. LOOK AT THIS, MEN WHO DO THIS, AND FEEL FOOLISH

Do you see how ridiculous this looks? How obscene?
molten-heart:

anastasiajeanettemarie:

sizvideos:

If Girls Hit On Guys Like Guys Hit On Girls - Video

LOOK AT THIS. LOOK AT THIS, MEN WHO DO THIS, AND FEEL FOOLISH

Do you see how ridiculous this looks? How obscene?
molten-heart:

anastasiajeanettemarie:

sizvideos:

If Girls Hit On Guys Like Guys Hit On Girls - Video

LOOK AT THIS. LOOK AT THIS, MEN WHO DO THIS, AND FEEL FOOLISH

Do you see how ridiculous this looks? How obscene?
molten-heart:

anastasiajeanettemarie:

sizvideos:

If Girls Hit On Guys Like Guys Hit On Girls - Video

LOOK AT THIS. LOOK AT THIS, MEN WHO DO THIS, AND FEEL FOOLISH

Do you see how ridiculous this looks? How obscene?

molten-heart:

anastasiajeanettemarie:

sizvideos:

If Girls Hit On Guys Like Guys Hit On Girls - Video

LOOK AT THIS. LOOK AT THIS, MEN WHO DO THIS, AND FEEL FOOLISH

Do you see how ridiculous this looks? How obscene?

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lullabysounds:

ladies….

i think we should all be rly proud of ourselves that we reblog each others selfies. like … we grew up on the idea that we had to compete with each other and to be defensive and nasty whenever another girl showed an ounce of confidence like it was a direct attack on our self esteem 

now we literally encourage that shit + spread it around like that is so powerful and cool and nice and great i love you all so much

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